Why Pastors Get DIVORCED

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do you know why pastors fail in marriage men of God's marriages die I'm one of those people that went through that I got divorced I'll tell you why it happens God has never told a man or a woman go to your wife go to your husband you're spending too much time with me because also God lasts after you he wants you for himself when he gave you a wife he gave your husband he gave you a help mate but he's number one so when you start started he doesn't want you to leave him he won't tell you go and fix your relationship it will be you to give him boundaries if you don't give him boundaries he will ruin your marriage

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because he will never tell you you're neglecting your wife he won't say that he wouldn't say you're neglecting your husband Moses is with God 40 days 40 nights on the mountain hasn't gone down to his wife his wife doesn't and then he comes down full of the anointing full of power he has to have Avail on do you think he's going to lay with his wife Moses had his son before he started going up the mountain after that we don't know if Moses never had any other children so you can tell that the intimacy was no longer there Paul meets God and he says I don't want to get married anymore he's like wait a minute whoa because you have to remember the original intention of kids was to continue what you started the desire for Sex God put it in us so that we can procreate we can enjoy the process it is not the center of marriage but it is important in a marriage because once you get married you realize there are other things that are encompassing it that if that's the only thing you went into it for it will die imagine being married to to Jesus obviously the Lord is you know we are married to him but but think about that for a second a man who's going City to City doing what God wants spending all night praying why aren't you in bed right now where are you you become a problem the marriage will die now let's be real people he will die oh it's bad God won't tell you yeah your wife needed now go now he's saying I'm number one the more you spend time with him yeah I'm number one that's where I belong your wife needs to know I'm Number One your husband needs to know I'm number one so also God doesn't permit people to enter into this place if you're not mature because he can destroy you that's why Paul starts saying uh before you fast go talk to your spouse so that you don't deny them they are right notice Paul is giving that advice but there is no scripture that says befou thou fastest go and talk to he's giving you a tip because God wants you to fast that's why Jesus said when you first he didn't say if you fast God is expecting you to do that but Paul comes in and says he wants you to do that but remember you're also in Covenant with somebody can you clear it up before you do that notice God will be willing for you to violate that vow and he won't say you sinned I don't think you're understanding what that's why men of God divorce that's why women of God powerful prophets even like me you go through divorce and you wonder how did I get nah it's true there are things I'm sure I neglected big time because the closer I go to God even my my view of Life of everything changed are you see him you don't remain the same you die meaning everything to do with you loses meaning